Saturday, 22 November 2014

Break ups...

Dictionary says it means the separation or breaking up of something into several pieces or sections. Well, these days break-ups are in common practice, either it's between a married couple, boy friend, girl friend or friends.
Why so?
We lack in patience now, when we find ourselves falling in love, it can be exciting and anxiety including at the same time. What I mean by this is that we open our hearts to someone and by doing so we get vulnerable to them. Differences cause problems, sometimes exceptions, lack of trust,emotional baggage, communication break down, abuse in any form,frequent conflicts,independence etc. People stay together for so many reasons even if they no longer love each other. They decide to remain as a couple because they could not see themselves any other way or perhaps for the sake of kids or religious beliefs etc.we see many people, both as couples and individual who are at various stages of separation and seems world has been turned up-side down.
Love hurts, so what people do after break-ups?? Girls & Boys...
Let's talk about guys first, what they really do after you dump them?
Guys might seem faze by a break-up and start playing a sad song, just tucked up in bed and pretending I am on hunger strike, won't eat anything and meanwhile ordered pizza, eat,drink and be merry :p and try to show they are too busy and grow a break-up beard as no one has time to shave when they are plumbing the depths of human emotion and yeah x-box games with friends.
Guys if you are reading this, you can add more that what you people do after break-up :D
What girls really do? Hahahaha... Girls are more sensitive and it's really get hard for them, in the first place they try their best to make it working and finally they end up on stalking her ex Facebook, start writing awful poetry, start offering prayers more regularly, a new drastic edgy hair cut, suddenly motivated to do all those she wanted to do but never did because of her 'evil' ex and they tell everyone around that they are doing just fine but never been better and sometimes the night takes a turn and they channel ugly cry and let everything out but it's hard for them to admit and as time passes, girls learn to let go of the pars and learn to create a better version of theirselves.
Most young adults now choose to end relationship via text. Gone are the days of giving someone the courtesy of a face-to-face chat.
Impacts of break-ups are drastic. It get really hard to cope. Anyone who has experienced the break-up knows it can cause anxiety, irritability, anger, mood swings, depression and feeling of hopelessness and worthlessness.
Sometimes two people have to fall apart to realise how they need to fall back together. Break- ups are hard for anybody, but losing someone who does not respect and appreciate you is actually a gain, not a loss!!
This phase typically ends in a lot of regretful reflection for many years to come.
Life is too short to suffer fools honestly, deal with break-up. Stay strong, again fell in love after break-up and don't think too much. If still you think you cannot cope tell your mum, dad and siblings, hahahaha.. They are the best to screw you up :D after all brown parents rocks.

P.S: This is my first post from iPad. My father gifted me this iPad only for blogging. Thank you Abu. You are the bestest *smiles*

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