Saturday, 24 August 2013

Accept it...

Life is really hard and it’s all about how to live a great life regardless of the fact that life is difficult.

Everybody wants to be happy in life. We all want to live a perfect life. We want a great job or a successful business. We want to be married to Mr. Right or Mrs Perfect. We want to have great kids. We want to have friends that stick by us come rain or shine. We want to be able to have all the material things life has to offer and have all our problems just vanish.

Everybody wishes for good life. It may be at different levels. One person may define a good life one way and another may describe it another way. For one person a good life may be just having three meals a day and a roof over their head. For another it may be having a huge mansion and a couple of million dollars in the bank.

There are different levels and meanings to what a good life is. But whatever you definition of it, there is perhaps one thing that you may have in common with many other people. You might want that good life stress free. You would like to have it without having to work so hard or struggle so much for it. That is a normal human expectation.

Thoughts about that work, planning, overcoming hurdles and resistance is enough to make a lot of people give up before they even start. It can all seem too overwhelming, and for many it all just doesn’t seem be worth it. It’s like being drained of energy just at the thought of running a marathon. Before you are even at the starting line the thought of all that running just scares you and tires you so much mentally you just decide not to go for it. It’s just too hard.

I was thinking about her, she is homeless… But not for long. Yesterday she had it all, today she has nothing, she is a young educated woman that become homeless couple of years back, Since then her outlook on life has changed completely, she is fighting every day and one day she will get her home. Sometimes things don’t work out, the people whom you consider most sincere and you are expecting a hug or few words of kindness that costs nothing will just stand few steps away… seems they are fed up of helping or whatever. Everyone has own story. Life is not easy indeed but it goes on… it never stops so

“If life hands you lemons, make lemonade.”  And be thankful to Allah whatever the situation is… He is te only one who can help, don’t ask people for help. Just say Excuse ME God… J Yes you can spek up to HIM and ask HIM for whatever you want and He answers.