When I left my place for work in the morning, with my head covered, I realized I was the dream of every stupid pedestrian,and the desired object of every bus or a rickshaw driver. Young or old guys of the upper or middle class gawked at me and I was a poor soul.
Unfortunately I cold not act like a film heroine to ask, what you are staring at??? Or let allow slapping on their faces, the way heroine do in the movies.
They are Men the forgiven specie of mankind??
Staring and goggling has become a virus in Pakistan and it’s the obligatory duty of guys to turn off their heads, when a girl passes by them.
I asked one of my male friends, what happens when a beautiful girl walks pass you in the street. “I would stare at her with wide glazed eyes,” he said. I asked him again why he was putting up with this behavior, why all guys gawk at girls. At once he said, Excuse me, why do I need to look at , or let me make it clear to you, if I look at someone that does not mean I have any such viruses or germs in me. Trust me em a very decent guy!!!
Me and my brother get on great most of the times except when we are out and he gawks at other girls, it really bothers me and when I complain he laughs and says that he is just looking and it`s normal male behavior!!!
Scientist s believes that the part of brain that governs the visual senses generates more neural activity in guys than in girls.
As compared to guys we( I mean, Girls) are like angels. We may not stare at guys even when we are with friends!! Waisy bhee why should we stare at others` fiancé, son or husband?? Thank God we don’t have such germs in us. I don`t understand why guys do not follow the proper etiquette's and intentionally make girls uncomfortable by fixing their eyes on them.
Dear guys!!!! Why don`t you understand this thing really irritates us. Your sick staring attitude is kind of harassment. Yes it is!! The moment we step out of our houses for work, this harassment starts, and we(girls)have to bear it all because we can do nothing to stop it, in morning i was feeling like cry. It has nothing to do with being educated or illiterate as even educated people do not to make an exception - it`s all about your brought up!! So all we can do is to ignore them...